INFLUENCES

Are you letting other people influence your decisions?

It's really upsetting that so many individuals are filled with self doubt but even more galling is that their doubts are often fuelled by those closest to them.


You can be excited about a new venture and want to share the news with your friends or family - what happens - the doom and gloom merchants feel they have to wade in and protect you from yourself.

One of your first mistakes is to allow their negative attitudes to chip away at your resolve. For every positive angle you have, they will counter with a negative.
And despite their never having the gumption to try anything for themselves, sadly for you that is, their sincerity can make their theorising seemingly hard to ignore.

How do you keep the peace, your friends and your sanity?
Keep taking the tablets - no not funny - Keep any plans to yourself , keep your own council and be single-minded in where you want to be.

Economically there have been better times than now, but the economy isn’t the main ingredient, you and only you can dictate your success or failure.

And there is still the old saying ‘If at first you don’t succeed…’